But it's never something serious
It's gotten to the point, as I've said before, where I no longer worry for boyfriend's safety if he doesn't call after he says he will. Everytime I get frustrated when he doesn't follow through on a phone call or email, I think "What if something happened to him? He could be dead or in the hospital right now. You would feel like such a bitch if something happened to him." But that thought is immediately swept away by the plethora of examples of how safe and healthy boyfriend has always been when he didn't follow through.
So when boyfriend said "Can I call you right back?" and then didn't call for over thirty minutes, I was reminded of the last time this happened ("Oops, I forgot. Sorry"). I decided not to call him, and was glad that I actually wasn't angry at him. If he didn't call me back, it didn't matter. I have a life too.
So I was surprised when he called me nearly an hour later and told me that he had lost control of his car and slid down a hill in the snow, and had to get help in order to get home.
Oops.
posted by myboyfriendiscrazy @ 11:29 AM
11 Comments:
Oh wow! Good thing he is okay!
But he is OK, and there is nothing you could have done anyway.
And he didn't worry about you and the spider and centipede.....
He's a big boy.
I've slid off the road etc. before and so has my Mom. It is not that big a thing.
dont feel bad....I am a bad person...I laughed when I read this, sorry...
this happened to me once - I always used to freak out if my friend Charlie wasn't home on time. The one time I calmed myself down with a "don't worry, he's always fine", it turned out the car in front of him had been run over by an 18-wheeler! He was fine, but the car in front of him clearly was not. Pretty scary stuff.
It's just hard to find the middle ground - the reasonable amount of worry without being obsessive, ya know?
and I laughed cause...this kind of thing always happened to me with BD always worrying about him cause he was always out late the only times I wasnt worried were the times when he was in a car wreck or in jail.....at first i felt bad but then I figured...eh!, it avarages out for all the times I worried for nothing :P
That just goes to show if he rang you when he said he would, you would have known to worry this time!
Murphy's Law... I've been in almost the exact situation, and I felt horrible after I was in it. Lucky for you, you didn't assume the worse and think it was just his behavior getting the best of him.
OMG that explains why he hasnt returned your calls for the last year until now!!!! Thats also a good explanation for why you havent gotten your gift either, what had happened was your present was in the car so when he rolled off the road (down a minor hill) the present got destroyed down to crumbs.......so now if you give him one more year he will build you a huge present. i know this sounds like an excuse but if he had an unfortunate incident it understandable! LMAO he should use this excuse more often so you feel bad and cant get mad!!! OH WAIT HE DOES THAT EVERYTIME ALREADY!!!!!!!!
I laughed, too. Only because you purposely wrote it funny and not because it is funny.
OK, I lied. It's damn funny.
Yeah, it's damn funny! Maybe the universe was finally punishing him for all his unreturned phone calls to you?? Karma is a bitch!
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