More news on the gift & a moody boyfriend
On the phone with boyfriend last night, we had yet another slow conversation. I called him while I was walking to the library (a five minute walk), and we couldn't even sustain the conversation for that long.
I ended up asking him "So, what did you do this weekend?"
He didn't provide much of a response, so I clarified, "I just realized I wasn't sure what you have been up to lately."
Then I broke the rule I had made for myself and asked about the gift. "I really don't want to be a nag, but I was wondering how it's going with the... thing. Y'know, the gift."
He again told me, "It's hard to tell you what's going on without giving it away."
Not wanting to irritate him, I said "I just hadn't heard you talk about it in a while, so I wasn't sure if maybe you forgot."
He told me that he actually had been working on it (for three hours that day alone), but for some reason the program he had been using to make it wasn't working on his new computer.
I asked him if he thought it was possible to figure it out or if he should just give up. He agreed with my comment that "It would be awful to give up after all this work, huh?"
So... that's still up in the air, but I feel better knowing that he at least hasn't completely forgotten about it.
Still, after the phone call I was bothered by the way he had sounded on the phone. I had asked him if he was feeling okay and everything was all right, and he said yes. But he sounded almost pissed off, for no reason that I could tell. Maybe from fiddling unsuccessfully with the computer for three hours, but it still bothered me. I got online and we talked for a minute or two, and he again sounded irritated.
I said: "Have you seen Stranger Than Fiction?"
Him: "No, why?"
Me: "I really want to see it."
Him: "Then you should go see it."
Great, thanks.
Anyway, I have better things to do than worry about boyfriend's bad moods. Like go see my dad and the pets for Thanksgiving break! I will post pictures of these adorable babies!



18 Comments:
Did you fuck another guy during your break with boyfriend?
I hope you have a good Thanksgiving!
my best friend left me and moved to another state approx. 3 years ago. We still chat either on the phone, by text, email, or MySpace regularly.
We are still best friends and therefore, have an obligation to give each other fabulous (if a bit cheap)gifts for birthdays.
I'm still waiting on my gift from last year - it's 3/4 done and I saw it once! AND I'm waiting on my gift from this year- 4 months ago.
I know that she could have finished both and sent them to me long ago, but she has other priorities. I accept this and try not to hate her too much for it :)
I already answered your question, Jack. No I did not.
it is a PRESENT. he doesnt have to give it to you, he doesnt owe it to you. so don't act like he's being in anyway a "bad boyfriend" for something so material and irrelevent to actual emotions.
I've been in your situation before. It's so frustrating.
good luck!
someone who cares about you should show you through his/her actions that you are important. he/she should make the choice to set aside time and energy to get you that present, when that's what they promised to do.
happy turkey day.
Okay, aren't you curious what he could possibly be making you on the computer as a gift? I mean, what could it be? A home-made card? An edited photo-shop picture? Or better yet, perhaps a CD of his favorite music that reminds him of you? With all the build up of the gift, I wonder if it will really be worth it, given all the trouble it took to get it. I could see a special trip, or a party, or an "experience" of some kind taking forever to plan and coordinate - but not some computer project...thoughts MBIC?
Maybe he's making you a video game. Like that game where you shoot the bunnies..but in yours you get to shoot little pictures of your crazy bf...
Hey, I've been there, done that.
I know you're not being ungrateful. It's just that he's your boyfriend and he's supposed to know how much something like this means to you. He's digging himself deeper by the day, too, because after this long if he doesn't give you something AWESOME you'll be wondering what took so long. Guys shouldn't let us have high expectations about them unless they're able to follow through.
Have a nice Thanksgiving!
I wouldn't worry about the gift so much, it's the moodiness that I tend to find more annoying in a person. I guess you have to figure out if his behavior is indicative of a larger problem or if it's just your his character and you're willing to put up with it.
Happy Thanksgiving...I think jack wants to make u an indicent proposal....thats why he keeps asking ehhehe
Sounds more like an obligation than a gift at this point.
At the rate he's going, it'll do double duty as a Christmas present too.
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No good can come of those awkward conversations ... they may subside for a while but they always end up rearing their ugly little annoying heads until shit just hits the fan hardcore.
Stranger Than Fiction is the best movie I have ever seen. Go, you will love it. Very smart and sweet.
You're just trying to find your groove again. Be patient. And anything you did on yoru break should be kept secret.
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