A little background
Now that I've started the blog, I'm going to write some basic info about my relationship with my boyfriend.
We've been together for almost 2.5 years (this month)
We started dating senior year of high school (though we didn't go to the same high school), and when I moved across the country to go to college, we stayed together. I visited in October, he visited for Thanksgiving, I visited for winter, spring, and summer breaks. We lost our virginity to each other over the spring break. We tried an open relationship at the end of freshman year, though neither of us dated anyone else. The summer after freshman year, I broke up with him. I didn't want to stop being his friend, but I didn't want to do long distance again. However, boyfriend had difficulty being 'friends' and since it appeared that I would have to either stop talking to him for a long time (half a year? a year? who knows) or get back together with him, I got back together with him (Thanksgiving sophomore year). I went home for winter break and saw him, and we decided that we would not be in an open relationship. Now it is just past spring break of my sophomore year in college, and we are still together, but as in many relationships, not 100% perfect.
Landmarks and sex stats
1st date: Homecoming, (October 25th)
1st kiss: that night (maybe I'm a kiss-on-the-first-date kinda gal!) Initiated by: both parties
1st handjob: November-ish? His first time receiving, my second time giving. Initiated by: me. where? In a car in the grocery store parking lot. Later that week we decided to 'slow it down' until we talked about stuff before doing it
Resumption of handjobs: Winter dance (January). In the back of the van everyone rode in for the dance, while everyone else was bowling Initiated by: me. Bonus: boyfriend wearing baseball uniform due to dance theme
1st "I love you": sometime in March. Discussion inititated by me, but he said it first because I got too shy and couldn't say anything
1st jewelry gift: April 25 (6 month anniversary). Gorgeous sapphire pendant with diamond side stones.
1st oral sex: Prom (April?) His first time receiving, my first time giving. Initiated by: me where? In his car at a 'scenic area'
1st handjob for me: Prom (same one) His first time giving, my first time receiving. Initiated by: him. where? In someone's crowded living room (everyone was sleeping. I hope)
1st sexual 'surprise': December. I bought a garter, thigh-highs, and sexy lace underwear at Victoria's Secret and wore them under my clothes on the plane home. He picked me up, had no idea until... well until the appropriate time
1st time having sex: March 22. First time for both of us. Initiated by: both parties. Condoms? Yes. where? My bed at home
1st breakup: August
1st reunion: November
It's kind of hard to have firsts anymore now that we've been together for 2.5 years. I guess there could be first things like sex on the floor (August 2005) and sex in the shower (not yet). But since they haven't happened yet, I may just write about them as they happen. And add them here.
Boyfriend #: 3